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Developing empathy and understanding in relationships from "summary" of The Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Goldhor Lerner

Developing empathy and understanding in relationships involves the ability to truly listen and connect with our partners on a deeper level. It requires us to set aside our own needs and desires momentarily in order to fully comprehend our partner's perspective. By doing so, we are able to establish a sense of mutual respect and compassion within the relationship. Empathy allows us to step into our partner's shoes and see the world through their eyes. It enables us to recognize and validate their emotions, even if we do not necessarily agree with them. This validation fosters a sense of trust and openness within the relationship, creating a safe space for both partners to express themselves authentically. Understan...
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    The Dance of Intimacy

    Harriet Goldhor Lerner

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