Balancing independence and togetherness in a relationship from "summary" of The Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Goldhor Lerner
The challenge of maintaining individuality in a relationship while also fostering connection and closeness is a central theme in understanding the dance of intimacy. Many of us struggle with finding the right balance between independence and togetherness, often swinging from one extreme to the other. When we prioritize independence over togetherness, we may become emotionally distant and unavailable to our partner. This can lead to feelings of loneliness and disconnection, as well as a lack of intimacy and emotional depth in the relationship. On the other hand, when we prioritize togetherness over independence, we may lose sight of our own needs, desires, and boundaries, becoming enmeshed with our partner in a way that erodes our sense of self. Finding the middle ground between in...
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