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Honor the unique boundaries of others from "summary" of The Dance of Connection by Harriet Lerner

In our interactions with others, it is essential to recognize and respect the individual boundaries that each person has established. These boundaries are not fixed or uniform; they vary from one person to another, depending on their unique experiences, values, and preferences. By honoring these boundaries, we demonstrate our respect for the autonomy and independence of others. When we disregard or violate someone's boundaries, we send a message that their needs and preferences are unimportant or insignificant. This can lead to feelings of resentment, anger, or frustration in the other person, and can damage the trust and connection in the relationship. It is crucial to be mindful of the signals that others are sending about their boundaries, whether through verbal cues, body language, or other for...
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    The Dance of Connection

    Harriet Lerner

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