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Accept what is outside your control with detachment from "summary" of The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday,Stephen Hanselman
The Stoics believed that it is essential to recognize and accept what is outside of our control. This acceptance should not be passive or resigned but rather done with a sense of detachment. By acknowledging that there are things beyond our power to change, we free ourselves from unnecessary stress and anxiety. This detachment allows us to focus our energy on the things that are within our control, such as our thoughts, actions, and attitudes. When we resist or try to control things that are beyond our power, we only end up causing ourselves more suffering. It is like trying to fight against the current of a river - exhausting and futile. Instead, by practicing detachment, we can learn to go with the flow of life, accepting the things we cannot change and adapting to them gracefully. Detachment does not mean indifference or apathy. It is not about giving up or being passive in the face of adversity. Rather, it is a way of approaching life with a sense of equanimity and resilience. By accepting what is outside of our control with detachment, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace and strength that allows us to face whatever comes our way with grace and composure.- The practice of accepting what is outside of our control with detachment is about letting go of our attachment to specific outcomes and embracing uncertainty. It is about acknowledging the limits of our power and focusing on what we can do rather than what we cannot. By doing so, we can navigate life's ups and downs with a sense of calm and clarity, knowing that we are capable of handling whatever comes our way.