The search for perfection fuels narcissistic tendencies from "summary" of The Culture of Narcissism by Christopher Lasch
The search for perfection, as we have come to understand it in our modern society, has an insidious effect on our collective psyche. Our relentless pursuit of the flawless ideal fuels narcissistic tendencies in ways that are not immediately apparent. In our quest for perfection, we become preoccupied with our own image and self-worth, constantly comparing ourselves to unattainable standards. This fixation on perfection leads to a self-absorption that is characteristic of narcissism. We become consumed with our own desires and ambitions, often at the expense of others. Our relationships become transactional, based on what others can do for us rather than genuine human connection. We prioritize our own success and happiness above all else, even if it means disregarding the needs and feelings of those around us. The pres...
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