Celebrate progress, no matter how small from "summary" of The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family by Wendy Sunshine,David Cross,Karyn Purvis
It is essential to recognize and acknowledge even the smallest steps forward that your child takes in their healing journey. Celebrating progress, no matter how minimal it may seem, is crucial in building trust and fostering a sense of accomplishment within your child. By praising and acknowledging every small victory, you are reinforcing positive behaviors and encouraging further growth and development. When a child has experienced trauma or has attachment issues, their progress may be slow and incremental. It is important not to dismiss these small steps as insignificant, but rather to view them as significant milestones in their healing process. By celebrating these small victories, you are showing your child that you see and appreciate their efforts, which can boost their self-esteem and motivation to continue making progress. Furthermore, celebrating progress helps create a positive and nurturing environment within your family. When you acknowledge and celebrate your child's achievements, no matter how small, you are fostering a sense of belonging and acceptance. This positive reinforcement can help strengthen the bond between you and your child, creating a more secure attachment and promoting overall well-being. In addition, celebrating progress can also help shift the focus from negative behaviors to positive ones. By highlighting and praising the things that your child is doing well, you are redirecting their attention towards more desirable behaviors. This can help your child develop a more positive self-image and improve their overall behavior and emotional regulation.- Celebrating progress, no matter how small, is a powerful tool in helping your child heal and grow. By recognizing and acknowledging their efforts, you are providing them with the encouragement and support they need to continue on their path to healing. So, take the time to celebrate every small step forward that your child takes, and watch as they blossom and thrive in your loving and nurturing care.