Building trust takes time from "summary" of The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family by Wendy Sunshine,David Cross,Karyn Purvis
Building trust with a child who has experienced trauma is a process that cannot be rushed. It requires patience, consistency, and time. These children have often been let down by adults in the past, so they may struggle to trust new caregivers. It is important to understand that trust is not something that can be forced or demanded. It must be earned through positive interactions and experiences over time. When working to build trust with a child, it is essential to be reliable and consistent in your words and actions. Children who have experienced trauma may have learned to expect disappointment, so it is crucial to follow through on your promises and commitments. This will help the child learn that they can depend on you and begin to feel more secure in your care. Creating a safe and nurturing environment is also vital in building trust with a child. Children who have experienced trauma may have a heightened s...
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