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Avoid making assumptions in conversations from "summary" of The Communication Book: 44 Ideas for Better Conversations Every Day by Mikael Krogerus,Roman Tschäppeler

Assumptions kill communication. They are like an invisible wall that separates us from the person we are talking to. When we assume things, we stop listening. We stop paying attention to what the other person is saying. We stop trying to understand their point of view. Instead, we jump to conclusions based on our own biases and preconceptions. Assumptions come in many forms. It could be assuming that we know what the other person is going to say before they even say it. It could be assuming that we know what they mean without clarifying. It could be assuming that they share our beliefs and values. Whatever form assumptions take, they all have the same effect - they hinder effective communication. To avoid making assumptions in conversations, we need to cultivate a mindset of curiosity. Instead of assuming, we should ask questions. We should seek to understand the other person's perspective. We should listen actively and empathetically. We should be open to new ideas and different points of view. By avoiding assumptions, we can create a space for genuine dialogue. A space where both parties feel heard and understood. A space where ideas can be exchanged freely and openly. A space where true communication can take place. So, the next time you find yourself making assumptions in a conversation, pause. Take a step back and remind yourself to be curious. Ask questions, listen actively, and strive to understand. By doing so, you can break down the invisible wall that separates you from the other person and truly connect on a deeper level.

The Communication Book: 44 Ideas for Better Conversations Every Day

Mikael Krogerus

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