McBride's realization of the importance of family from "summary" of The Color of Water by James McBride
As I looked back on my upbringing, I began to see how my mother's actions and sacrifices were all rooted in her unwavering belief in the power of family. She never wavered in her commitment to providing for her children, even when the odds were stacked against her. It was this unyielding devotion to her family that shaped my own understanding of what it means to be a parent. Growing up, I often struggled to reconcile my mother's reluctance to talk about her past with the deep love and care she showed for us every day. It was only as I delved deeper into her history that I began to understand the pain and trauma she had endured, and the strength it took for her to overcome it all for the sake of her family. Her silence was not a sign of indifference, but rather a coping mechanism born out of necessity. In witnessing my mother's resilience and determination, I came to realize the profound impact that family can have on a person's life. It was through her a...
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