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Charisma is about making others feel valued and understood from "summary" of The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane
Charisma is not about being the center of attention or the life of the party. It is not about being the most charming or the most extroverted person in the room. True charisma is about making others feel valued and understood. It is about connecting with people on a deep level and making them feel like they matter. When you make others feel valued and understood, you are showing them that you care about them as individuals. You are demonstrating empathy and compassion, which are essential components of charisma. People are naturally drawn to those who make them feel appreciated and heard. They are more likely to trust and respect someone who takes the time to understand them and show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings. Charismatic individuals are skilled at listening and observing. They pay attention to what others are saying and make an effort to understand their perspective. By actively listening and engaging with others, they create a sense of connection and rapport. This genuine interest in others helps to build trust and strengthen relationships. In order to make others feel valued and understood, it is important to be present in the moment. Charismatic individuals are fully engaged in conversations and interactions, giving their full attention to the person they are speaking to. They are not distracted or preoccupied with other thoughts or tasks. This presence and focus make the other person feel like they are the most important person in the room.- Charisma is not about being the most charismatic person in the room. It is about making others feel valued and understood. By showing empathy, compassion, and genuine interest in others, you can build strong connections and create lasting relationships. Charisma is a skill that can be developed and honed over time, allowing you to connect with others on a deeper level and make a positive impact in your interactions.
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