Assess your support system and community resources from "summary" of The Baby Decision by Merle A Bombardieri MSW LICSW
Consider who is in your corner and who is not. When contemplating a significant life change like having a baby, it is essential to evaluate your support system and community resources. Who can you rely on for emotional support, practical help, and guidance? Who may not be able to provide the support you need, or worse, who may be critical or unsupportive of your decision? Your support system may include family members, friends, colleagues, neighbors, or members of your religious or spiritual community. It is crucial to assess the strengths and limitations of these relationships. Are there individuals you can turn to for advice, assistance with childcare, or a listening ear when you need to talk? Are there people in your life who may not understand your choices or who may try to influence your decision in ways that are not helpful to you? Community resources can also be valuable sources of support. These may include parenting classes, support groups for new parents, childcare services, healthcare providers, and social service agencies. Investigate what resources are available in your community and how they might benefit you as you navigate the decision-making process around having a baby.- You may find that certain relationships strengthen while others fade away. Be open to seeking out new sources of support and assistance as needed. Ultimately, having a strong support system and access to community resources can make a significant difference in your ability to navigate the challenges and joys of parenthood.
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