Be mindful of the impact your story may have on others from "summary" of The Art of Memoir by Mary Karr
Consider the consequences of laying people bare in print. Your story isn't only yours once it's on the page. It belongs to those you've dragged into the harsh light. Words have the power to wound, to ignite fury, to unravel a life. Revealing intimate details can be cathartic for you, but it may feel like an assault to others. Imagine the impact of your truths on those who shared your journey. Are you prepared for the fallout? The people in your story have their own versions of events, their own wounds and scars. Will they see themselves in your words and feel betrayed? Will they recognize their pain in your portrayal and resent you for it? You may believe you're telling your truth, but remember that truth is subjective. Your memories may differ from those of others involved. Your perspective might not align with theirs. Are you willing to accept their reactions, whether they be anger, hurt, or betrayal? Can you handle the fallout of your revelations? Be aware of the power you hold as a memoirist. Your words have the ability to shape perceptions, to alter relationships, to inflict pain. Consider the ethical implications of sharing your story. Are you willing to sacrifice the peace of others for the sake of your narrative? Can you justify the potential harm your words may cause? Before you lay bare the lives of those around you, pause and reflect. Consider the weight of your words, the impact of your story. Are you willing to bear the responsibility of the fallout? Writing a memoir is not just about telling your truth; it's also about being mindful of the impact your truth may have on others.
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