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Letting go of the need for perfection can bring greater peace from "summary" of The Art of Happiness in a Troubled World by Dalai Lama,Howard Cutler,M.D.

When we strive for perfection in everything we do, we set ourselves up for disappointment and frustration. It is an unattainable goal that only serves to create stress and anxiety in our lives. The idea of perfection is subjective and varies from person to person. What may seem perfect to one individual may not be the same for another. This constant pursuit of an ideal that is ever-changing can lead to a sense of inadequacy and self-doubt. By letting go of the need for perfection, we free ourselves from the burden of unrealistic expectations. We learn to accept ourselves and others as we are, flaws and all. This acceptance brings a sense of peace and contentment that is unattainable when we are constantly striving for an unattainable standard. It allows us to appreciate the beauty in imperfection and find joy in the simplicity of life. When we stop focusing on being perfect, we can redirect our energy towards more meaningful pursuits. We can cultivate compassion and empathy for ourselves and others, fostering stronger relationships and connections. We can embrace our mistakes and failures as opportunities for growth and learning, rather than as reflections of our worth. Letting go of the need for perfection is not a sign of weakness, but rather a testament to our strength and resilience. It requires courage to embrace our imperfections and vulnerabilities, knowing that they are an integral part of what makes us human. It is in this acceptance that we find true liberation and a deep sense of inner peace. So, instead of striving for an unattainable ideal, let us focus on being kind to ourselves and others, practicing self-love and forgiveness. Let us embrace the beauty in imperfection and find joy in the simplicity of life. In doing so, we can cultivate a greater sense of peace and fulfillment in our lives.
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    The Art of Happiness in a Troubled World

    Dalai Lama

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