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This mindset leads to conflict and resentment from "summary" of The Anatomy of Peace, Fourth Edition by The Arbinger Institute

When we operate with a mindset of seeing others as objects, as obstacles or vehicles to our own goals, conflict is inevitable. This mindset leads us to view others not as people with their own needs, desires, and feelings but as mere tools to be used or hurdles to be overcome. In this state of mind, we are focused solely on getting what we want, regardless of the impact on others. We become blind to the humanity of those around us, reducing them to mere objects in our pursuit of personal gain. As we interact with others from this mindset, our actions and words are likely to be self-serving and manipul...
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