People often see others as objects instead of individuals from "summary" of The Anatomy of Peace, Fourth Edition by The Arbinger Institute
When we see others as objects, we are not really seeing them at all. Instead, we are reducing them to mere obstacles, vehicles, or irrelevancies in our own pursuit of our goals. In essence, we are treating them as things rather than as people with their own thoughts, feelings, and desires. This objectification allows us to justify mistreating them or neglecting their needs because we do not view them as fully human.
This tendency to objectify others often stems from our own insecurities, fears, or prejudices. When we feel threatened or unsure of ourselves, it is easier to dehumanize others in order to protect our own sense of worth or control. By reducing others to objects, we can avoid the discomfort of truly engaging with them on a personal level and acknowledging their humanity.
Objectifying others can also lead to a cycle of conflict and dehumanization. When we see someone as an object, we are more likely to treat them poorly or disrespectfully. This can then trigger defensive or aggressive reactions from the other person, further entrenching the belief that they are not worthy of our consideration or empathy.
Breaking free from the trap of objectification requires a shift in perspective. We must learn to see others as individuals with their own unique experiences, perspectives, and feelings. This means recognizing their humanity and treating them with the same respect and dignity that we would want for ourselves.
By practicing empathy, humility, and compassion, we can begin to break down the barriers that separate us from others and foster genuine connections based on mutual understanding and respect. It is only when we see others as individuals, rather than objects, that we can truly build meaningful relationships and work towards a more peaceful and harmonious world.
