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Sometimes surrendering means saying sorry from "summary" of Surrender by Bono

In the heat of an argument, we often find ourselves entrenched in our own positions, unwilling to budge even an inch. We hold onto our pride like a shield, refusing to admit any wrongdoing. But what if I told you that sometimes, surrendering means saying sorry?Apologizing can be one of the hardest things to do. It requires us to set aside our ego and acknowledge our faults. It requires us to be vulnerable and open ourselves up to the possibility of rejection. But it is also one of the most powerful acts of surrender. When we apologize, we are not just admitting our mistakes. We are also showing that we value the relationship more than our pride. We are showing that we are willing to let go of our need to be right in order to make amends. It is a gesture of humility and grace, a way of saying, "I value you more than my own ego." Saying sorry is not a sign of weakness, as some may believe. It is a sign of strength, of courage, of wisdom. It takes a lot of courage to admit when we are wrong, to swallow our pride and extend an olive branch. But in doing so, we open the door to healing, to reconciliation, to growth. Apologizing is not just about the words we say. It is about the intention behind those words. It is about showing genuine remorse and a sincere desire to make things right. It is about taking responsibility for our actions and their impact on others. So the next time you find yourself in a situation where saying sorry is the last thing you want to do, remember this: sometimes surrendering means saying sorry. And in that act of surrender, you may just find the key to unlocking a new level of connection, understanding, and peace.
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