Use absence to magnify power from "summary" of Summary of The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene by Summareads Media
By utilizing our time away from people and situations, we can create an aura of mystery and intrigue. This can help us to amplify our power and draw attention to our presence. Taking the necessary breaks from our daily lives can enable us to gain more control over our situation and the people around us.- Absence is a powerful tool. It can be used to increase one's power, stature and respect. When used wisely, absence can create an aura of mystery that will cause others to think more highly of you.
- Although presence may be needed for certain tasks and occasions, absence can amplify your position in the eyes of other people. By holding back, you can exercise your power and influence in subtle ways.
- If you come back into a situation after lengthy absence, you have the advantage of being able to assess events from a distance. This can reveal new paths to success.
- Don't underestimate the psychological effects of absence. Staying unavailable may result in curiosity and rumour which can enhance your reputation.
- Be strategic with when you use it. Being absent at the most important times creates impactful moments. Understand the politics of the environment and decide when presence or absence serves you best.
- Those who are present should not be ignored. Pay attention to what they are saying and take note of interactions without participating in them directly. Absence can create opportunities to gain knowledge about those around you.
- Use absence to stay ahead of potential rivals. By withdrawing from competition, you can leave room for others to grapple with each other while you observe and plan.
- Not being available at all times can establish trust and loyalty between yourself and those who seek out your company. Moreover, those who know where to find you carry vital social capital.
- Think practically with regards to absence. Too much or too little can make you look powerless and uncertain. Use it as a way to emphasize both strength and modesty.
- Lead by example. People tend to mimic their superiors. Showing discipline and restraint through absences can motivate others to follow suit.