Discover your purpose before seeking a relationship from "summary" of Single On Purpose by John Kim
Before you invite someone else into your life, make sure you know who you are and what you want. This is not about being selfish or self-centered, but rather about being self-aware and intentional. It's about taking the time to figure out what makes you tick, what brings you joy, and what you are passionate about. When you are clear on your purpose and values, you are better equipped to attract a partner who aligns with them. Too often, we jump into relationships without really knowing ourselves. We look to others to fill a void or give us a sense of identity. But the truth is, no one else can define us or complete us. We must do that work ourselves. By taking the time to discover your purpose, you are investing in yourself and setting a strong foundation for a healthy relationship in the future. When you are single on purpose, you are not waiting for someone else to come along and make your life better. You are actively working on yourself and creating a life that is fulfilling and meaningful. You are pursuing your passions, building strong relationships with friends and family, and taking care of your physical and emotional well-being. You are not defined by your relationship status, but by who you are as an individual. Discovering your purpose is an ongoing journey. It requires introspection, reflection, and sometimes stepping out of your comfort zone. It may involve trying new things, taking risks, and facing fears. But the rewards are worth it. When you are clear on your purpose, you exude confidence and authenticity. You attract people who appreciate you for who you are, not for what you can give them. So, before you seek a relationship, take the time to discover your purpose. Invest in yourself, pursue your passions, and build a life that brings you joy. When you are rooted in who you are, you are better equipped to find a partner who complements you and supports your growth. Remember, you are whole and complete just as you are. Embrace your singlehood and make the most of this time to become the best version of yourself.
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