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Be present and attentive from "summary" of Simplicity Parenting - How to Understand Your Child & Become His Friend by Vanessa Angel
Being present and attentive is a fundamental concept in building a strong relationship with your child. It means giving your child your full and undivided attention when they are talking to you or expressing themselves in any way. This involves putting aside distractions such as phones, computers, or other tasks, and truly focusing on what your child is saying. When you are present and attentive, you are showing your child that you value and respect their thoughts and feelings. This can help to build trust and open lines of communication between you and your child. By being fully present in the moment, you are creating a safe space for your child to express themselves without fear of judgment or interruption. Being present and attentive also allows you to pick up on subtle cues and signals from your child that may indicate how they are feeling or what they may need from you. By paying close attention to your child's body language, tone of voice, and overall demeanor, you can better understand their emotions and respond in a supportive and empathetic manner. In today's fast-paced and technology-driven world, it can be easy to become distracted and disconnected from our children. By making a conscious effort to be present and attentive, you are showing your child that they are a priority in your life. This can help to strengthen your bond and create a sense of security and stability for your child.- Being present and attentive is a simple yet powerful way to connect with your child on a deeper level. By giving them your full attention and listening with an open heart and mind, you are laying the foundation for a strong and meaningful relationship built on trust, respect, and understanding.
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