Avoiding labels and stereotypes can prevent competition among siblings from "summary" of Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we assign labels or stereotypes to our children, we unintentionally create a sense of competition among them. Labels such as "the smart one" or "the athletic one" can lead to siblings feeling like they have to live up to these expectations, leading to jealousy and rivalry. By avoiding these labels and stereotypes, we allow each child to develop their own unique identity without feeling the pressure to measure up to their siblings. When children are constantly compared to one another based on these labels, it can create a toxic environment where they are always vying for their parents' approval or attention. This constant competition can lead to feelings of resentment and animosity between siblings, as they see each other as rivals rather than allies. Instead of p...
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