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Prioritizing pleasure leads to a more fulfilling sex life from "summary" of Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein

Many people approach sex as a problem to be solved, an activity that needs to be mastered, or a performance that requires skill. They believe that if they just figure out the right techniques or positions, they will achieve sexual satisfaction. However, this mindset often leads to anxiety and pressure, which can actually decrease pleasure and intimacy. When pleasure is the primary goal of sex, everything changes. Instead of focusing on performance or outcomes, individuals can prioritize their own enjoyment and the pleasure of their partner. This shift in perspective can lead to a more relaxed and fulfilling sexual experience. By letting go of expectations and simply being present in the moment, people can fully immerse themselves...
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