Cultivate a beginner's mind in conversations from "summary" of Say What You Mean by Oren Jay Sofer
Approaching conversations with a beginner's mind means letting go of preconceived notions and assumptions, and instead, engaging with curiosity and openness. It involves bringing a fresh perspective to each interaction, as if encountering the topic or person for the first time. This mindset allows us to truly listen and understand without the filter of our past experiences or biases clouding our perception. When we cultivate a beginner's mind in conversations, we embody the qualities of humility and receptivity. We acknowledge that we don't have all the answers and that there is always more to learn. This attitude not only fosters de...
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