Approach disagreements as opportunities for growth and understanding from "summary" of Say What You Mean by Oren Jay Sofer
When we find ourselves in a disagreement with another person, it can be all too easy to slip into a defensive posture. Our minds become clouded with our own thoughts and emotions, making it difficult to truly listen to what the other person is saying. However, if we can shift our perspective and see disagreements as opportunities for growth and understanding, we open ourselves up to a world of possibility. Approaching disagreements in this way requires us to be willing to set aside our own ego and truly listen to the other person. This means actively engaging with what they are saying, even if we disagree with it. By doing so, we create space for a deeper connection to form between us and the other person. This connection can lead to greater understanding and empathy, which in turn can help us find common ground and move towards a resolutio...
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