Never stop working on your relationship from "summary" of Relationship Goals by Michael Todd
Maintaining a healthy relationship is like tending to a garden. Just as a garden requires consistent care and attention to flourish, so too does a relationship. It's not enough to plant the seeds of love and then sit back and expect them to grow on their own. You have to nurture those seeds, water them, weed out the negativity, and make sure they are getting enough sunlight to thrive.
In the same way, your relationship needs constant tending. It's not enough to simply say, "I love you," and then assume that those words will carry you through the tough times. Love is an action, not just a feeling. It requires effort, commitment, and dedication to keep the flame burning bright.
When you stop working on your relationship, you run the risk of allowing weeds to grow and choke out the love that once bloomed so beautifully. Resentment, misunderstandings, and unmet expectations can start to take root, creating distance between you and your partner. That's why it's crucial to never become complacent in your relationship. Keep the lines of communication open, be willing to listen and compromise, and always strive to understand and support each other.
Remember, relationships are like living organisms that require care and attention to thrive. Just as you wouldn't neglect your physical health by skipping meals or exercise, you shouldn't neglect your relationship by letting it stagnate. Keep investing in your relationship, keep learning about each other, and keep growing together. When you make the effort to continuously work on your relationship, you are showing your partner that they are worth the time and effort. And in return, you will both reap the rewards of a strong, healthy, and fulfilling relationship.