Avoid comparing yourself to those with more traditional career paths from "summary" of Refuse to Choose! by Barbara Sher
When you're pursuing a path that doesn't fit neatly into the traditional career model, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to those who have followed more conventional routes. It's natural to feel a sense of unease when you see others climbing the corporate ladder or excelling in a traditional profession, while you're still figuring out your own unique path. But here's the thing: comparing yourself to others in this way is not only unproductive, it's also completely unfair to yourself.
The truth is, everyone's journey is different. What works for one person may not work for another, and what brings fulfillment to one person may leave another feeling empty. By constantly measuring yourself against those with more traditional career paths, you're setting yourself up for disappointment and self-doubt. You're discounting all the progress you've made and the unique value you bring to the table.
Instead of focusing on what others are doing, focus on what you're doing. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small they may seem. Remind yourself of the reasons why you chose this unconventional path in the first place, and how it aligns with your values and passions. Remember that success is not a one-size-fits-all concept, and that your worth is not defined by how closely you adhere to societal norms.
Embrace the fact that you are forging your own path, one that is uniquely yours. Trust in your instincts and your abilities, and have faith that you are exactly where you need to be. Your journey may be different from those around you, but that's what makes it special. So instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on being the best version of yourself, and watch as your unique path unfolds before you.
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