Take a proactive approach to prevent problems from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
When it comes to addressing challenging behaviors in our kids, many of us tend to be reactive rather than proactive. We wait for problems to arise and then we scramble to come up with solutions. But what if we could shift our mindset and take a proactive approach to prevent those problems from happening in the first place? Taking a proactive approach means anticipating potential challenges before they occur. It involves identifying triggers, understanding underlying factors, and implementing strategies to address those factors before they escalate into full-blown problems. By being proactive, we can create an environment that minimizes the likelihood of challenging behaviors occurring. One key aspect of taking a proactive approach is focusing on the root causes of behaviors rather than just the behaviors themselves. Instead of simply reacting to a child's outburst, we can take the time to understand what is driving that behavior. Is it a lack of skills, an unmet need, or a challenging situation? By addressing these root causes, we can prevent the behavior from happ...
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