Set clear expectations and boundaries from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
Setting clear expectations and boundaries is a critical component of the Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS) model. The concept may seem simple at first glance, but the devil is in the details. What does it mean to have clear expectations and boundaries? It means being specific about what you expect from your child in a given situation, and what the consequences will be if those expectations are not met. It's not enough to simply tell your child to behave or follow the rules. You need to clearly outline what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable, and what will happen if those boundaries are crossed. This requires a thoughtful and proactive approach to parenting, rather than a reactive one. When setting expectations and boundaries, it's important to involve your child in the process. This means having open and honest discussions about ...
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