Setting boundaries helps boys feel secure and understand expectations from "summary" of Raising Boys, Third Edition by Steve Biddulph
When boys know where the limits are, they feel secure. They understand the lay of the land. They can see what is expected of them, what is allowed and what is not. They know what is safe and what is not. When they know these things, they feel anchored. They know where they stand in the world and what they need to do to get along in it. Setting boundaries is not about control or dominance. It is about love, care, and guidance. It is about helping boys navigate the world in a way that keeps them safe and helps them grow into responsible, respectful men. Boundaries are like guardrails on a highway. They keep boys from veering off course and getting into trouble. They give boys a sense of direction and purpose. Boys need boundaries to flourish. Without them, they can feel lost, adrift, and insecure. They may not...
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