Setting boundaries helps boys feel secure and understand expectations from "summary" of Raising Boys, Third Edition by Steve Biddulph

When boys know where the limits are, they feel secure. They understand the lay of the land. They can see what is expected of them, what is allowed and what is not. They know what is safe and what is not. When they know these things, they feel anchored. They know where they stand in the world and what they need to do to get along in it. Setting boundaries is not about control or dominance. It is about love, care, and guidance. It is about helping boys navigate the world in a way that keeps them safe and helps them grow into responsible, respectful men. Boundaries are like guardrails on a highway. They keep boys from veering off course and getting into trouble. They give boys a sense of direction and purpose. Boys need boundaries to flourish. Without them, they can feel lost, adrift, and insecure. They may not know how to behave or what is expected of them. They may act out or withdraw in confusion. Boundaries give boys a sense of structure and order. They provide a framework for boys to learn and grow. Boundaries also help boys develop self-discipline and self-control. When boys know what is expected of them, they can better regulate their own behavior. They can make better choices and avoid unnecessary conflicts. They can focus on what matters and let go of what doesn't. Boundaries teach boys to respect themselves and others. In short, setting boundaries is a loving act. It is a way of showing boys that you care about them and want the best for them. It is a way of helping boys feel secure and understand what is expected of them. It is a way of guiding boys on the path to becoming responsible, respectful men.

Raising Boys, Third Edition

Steve Biddulph

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