Boys are sensitive and vulnerable but may hide their emotions from "summary" of Raising Boys, Third Edition by Steve Biddulph
Boys are sensitive and vulnerable, but they often hide their emotions behind a mask of toughness. Society has long dictated that boys should be strong, stoic, and unemotional, leading many boys to suppress their true feelings. This can be detrimental to their mental health and well-being, as it prevents them from processing and expressing their emotions in a healthy way. Despite their outward appearance of strength, boys are just as susceptible to emotional turmoil as girls. They may feel overwhelmed by their emotions but are unsure of how to deal with them. This can result in feelings of isolation, frustration, and confusion, as they struggle to make sense of their inner world. As parents, it is essential to create a safe and supportive environment where boys feel comfortable expressing their feelings. By encouraging open communication and showing empathy, parents can help boys navigate their emotions and develop healthy coping mechanisms. This involves actively listening to their concerns, validating their feelings, and offering guidance and support when needed. It is important to remember that boys may not always verbalize their emotions directly. Instead, they may exhibit their feelings through behavior, such as aggression, withdrawal, or mood swings. By paying attention to these cues and addressing the underlying emotions, parents can help boys understand and manage their feelings in a constructive manner.- Parents can help them develop emotional intelligence and resilience. This, in turn, can lead to healthier relationships, better mental health, and a greater sense of self-awareness. Ultimately, by embracing boys' sensitivity and vulnerability, we can help them grow into emotionally mature and well-adjusted individuals.
