Address underlying issues rather than just addressing behaviors from "summary" of Positive Discipline A-Z by Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.,Lynn Lott,H. Stephen Glenn
Addressing underlying issues is a critical part of effective discipline. When we only focus on behaviors, we are merely putting a band-aid on the situation. We need to dig deeper to understand what is driving the behavior in the first place. By addressing the root cause of the behavior, we can create lasting change. Underlying issues can vary greatly from one child to another. It could be a lack of attention, a need for power, or even unmet emotional needs. By taking the time to explore what is going on beneath the surface, we can better tailor our approach to discipline. This not only helps in resolving the immediate behavior but also in preventing future occurrences. One way to address underlying issues is to practice emp...
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