Communicate your fantasies and boundaries from "summary" of Passionista by Ian Kerner
Fantasies and boundaries are an essential part of any healthy sexual relationship. It's important to communicate them openly and honestly with your partner. Fantasies can be a source of excitement and passion in the bedroom, but they can also be a source of confusion or conflict if they are not shared and understood. By talking about your fantasies with your partner, you can create a safe space to explore your desires and discover new ways to connect and pleasure each other. Boundaries, on the other hand, are the limits that you set for yourself in a sexual relationship. They can include physical boundaries, like what you are comfortable doing in the bedroom, as well as emotional boundaries, like what you are comfortable sharing or discussing with your partner. It's important to communicate your boundaries clearly and assertively, so that your partner knows what is and isn't okay with you. When you communicate your fantasies and boundaries with your partner, you are building a foundation of trust and intimacy in your relationship. You are showing your partner that you trust them enough to share your deepest desires and vulnerabilities, and that you respect yourself enough to set boundaries that make you feel safe and comfortable. It's also important to listen to your partner's fantasies and boundaries with an open mind and heart. By creating a dialogue around these topics, you can deepen your connection and understanding of each other, and find ways to pleasure and satisfy each other that you may not have considered before. In the end, communicating your fantasies and boundaries is about creating a space of mutual respect, trust, and understanding in your sexual relationship. It's about being honest and vulnerable with each other, and creating a safe space to explore and enjoy your desires and pleasures together. So don't be afraid to speak up and share what's on your mind – you and your partner will both benefit from the open and honest communication.
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