The honeymoon phase of a relationship is not sustainable longterm from "summary" of On Romantic Love by Berit Brogaard
When two people first fall in love, they often experience what is commonly referred to as the "honeymoon phase" of the relationship. During this time, everything seems perfect - they can't get enough of each other, are constantly thinking about each other, and feel like they are on cloud nine. This initial phase is characterized by intense feelings of passion, infatuation, and desire for one another. The couple may spend all their time together, neglecting other aspects of their lives and relationships with friends and family. However, as time goes on, the honeymoon phase begins to fade. The initial excitement and euphoria of being in love gives way to a more stable and realistic view of the relationship. The couple starts to see each other's flaws and imperfections, and the rose-colored glasses they were wearing in the beginning come off. This shift can be difficult for some couples to navigate, as they may struggle to reconcile the idealized image of their partner with the reality of who they are. It is important to understand that the honeymoon phase is not sustainable long-term. While it is a natural and necessary part of falling in love, it is not a realistic or healthy basis for a lasting relationship. As the relationship progresses, the couple must learn to accept and appreciate each other for who they truly are, flaws and all. This requires open communication, compromise, and a willingness to work through challenges together. While the intensity of the honeymoon phase may fade, this does not mean that the love between the couple has diminished. In fact, many couples find that their love deepens and matures over time, as they build a strong foundation of trust, respect, and understanding. It is important for couples to recognize that love is not always easy, and that it takes effort and commitment to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship. By embracing the changes that come with time, couples can create a love that is lasting and resilient.
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