Understanding the “upstairs” and “downstairs” brain is crucial in parenting from "summary" of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel,Tina Payne Bryson
In order to effectively parent our children, it is essential to understand the concept of the "upstairs" and "downstairs" brain. The downstairs brain is responsible for our survival instincts and is activated in times of stress or threat. When this part of the brain is in control, we may react impulsively and emotionally without thinking things through. On the other hand, the upstairs brain is responsible for our higher-level thinking, reasoning, and decision-making abilities. It allows us to consider consequences, empathize with others, and make thoughtful choices. When the upstairs brain is engaged, we are better able to regulate our emotions and behavior in a more intentional and constructive manner. As parents, it is crucial to help our children develop and strengthen their upstairs brain functions. This can be done through n...
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