Redirecting behavior is more effective than simply saying “no.” from "summary" of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel,Tina Payne Bryson
When it comes to guiding our children's behavior, it's crucial to remember that simply saying "no" is often not enough. In order to truly be effective in shaping their actions, we must go beyond just setting limits and redirecting their behavior towards more appropriate choices. This approach not only helps prevent power struggles and conflicts, but also fosters a deeper understanding within our children about why certain behaviors are not desirable. Redirecting behavior involves actively steering our children towards more positive alternatives when they are engaging in undesirable actions. For instance, instead of just saying "no hitting," we can redirect their focus by suggesting they use their words to express their feelings or asking them to take a deep breath to calm down. By offering specific alternatives and providing guidance on how to make better choices, we are helping our children le...
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