Recognize the underlying needs behind your child’s behavior from "summary" of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel,Tina Payne Bryson
When our children's behavior frustrates or confuses us, it can be easy to react impulsively, without taking the time to understand what might be driving their actions. As parents, it's crucial to remember that behavior is a form of communication, and that there are often underlying needs or emotions behind our children's actions. By recognizing and addressing these needs, we can not only help our children navigate their emotions and behaviors more effectively, but also strengthen our connection with them. When we take the time to look beyond the surface of our child's behavior, we may discover that they are acting out because they are hungry, tired, scared, or simply seeking attention. By addressing these underlying needs, rather than just reacting to the behavior itself, we can help our children feel seen, heard, and understood. This can create a sense of safety and trust in our relationship w...
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