Punishment erodes connection and trust with your child from "summary" of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel,Tina Payne Bryson
When we resort to punishment as a way to discipline our children, we may not realize the negative impact it can have on our relationship with them. Punishment can create a divide between us and our children, eroding the connection and trust that are so essential for effective discipline. Instead of strengthening our bond with them, punishment can actually weaken it, making it harder for our children to come to us when they are struggling or need guidance. When we punish our children, we are essentially using fear and intimidation to control their behavior. This may work in the short term, but in the long run, it can damage our relationship with them. Our children may come to see us as authoritarian figures to be feared, rather than as caring and supportive parents who are there to help them learn and grow. This can lead to feelings of resentment and mistrust, making it difficult for our children to open u...
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