Personal values guide decisionmaking from "summary" of Man's Search for Himself by Rollo May
In our daily lives, we are constantly faced with decisions that shape our existence. From the seemingly insignificant choices to the life-altering ones, every decision we make is a reflection of our personal values. These values serve as a compass, guiding us through the intricate maze of life and helping us navigate the complexities of the world around us. When we are confronted with a decision, large or small, our values come into play. They act as a filter through which we view the choices before us, helping us weigh the pros and cons, the risks and benefits. Our values give us a sense of direction, a sense of purpose, helping us stay true to ourselves and our beliefs. It is through our values that we find meaning and fulfillment in our decisions. They provide us with a sense of identity, a sense of who we are and what we stand for. When we align our decisions with our values, we feel a sense of congruence, a sense of harmony with ourselves and the world around us. However, the process of decision-making is not always straightforward. There are times when our values may conflict, when we are torn between competing beliefs or desires. In these moments, we are faced with a dilemma, a struggle to reconcile our values and make a choice that is true to ourselves. In such times, it is important to reflect on our values, to delve deep into our innermost beliefs and desires. By understanding our values more clearly, we can make decisions that are in line with our true selves, decisions that bring us closer to our authentic being.- Our values are the bedrock of our decision-making process. They shape our thoughts, our actions, our very existence. When we honor our values in our decisions, we honor ourselves, living a life that is true, meaningful, and fulfilling.
