Deception can harm relationships from "summary" of Lying by Sam Harris
Deception is a hazardous enterprise, even when it is meant to spare people's feelings. It can damage relationships in ways that may be irreparable. When we lie to someone, we breach their trust. We risk losing their respect and affection, possibly for good. The truth has a way of outing itself eventually, and when it does, the fallout can be devastating. Human relationships are built on a foundation of trust. When we deceive others, we weaken that foundation. We create a barrier between ourselves and the people we care about. This barrier can be insurmountable, preventing genuine intimacy and connection. Without honesty, our relationships become fragile and shallow. Even seemingly innocuous lies can have serious consequences. When we lie about our thoughts, feelings, or actions, we deprive others of the opportunity to know and understand us. We deny them the chance to truly connect with us on a deep and meaningful level. This can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and ultimately, the erosion of the relationship. Deception also damages our own integrity and self-esteem. When we lie, we betray our own values and principles. We compromise our sense of self-worth and morality. We become enmeshed in a web of deceit that can be difficult to untangle. The act of lying can eat away at our conscience, leaving us feeling guilty and ashamed. In the end, deception is a lose-lose proposition. It undermines trust, damages relationships, and erodes our own integrity. The only way to truly nurture and sustain meaningful connections with others is through honesty and transparency. By embracing truthfulness in all our interactions, we can build strong, authentic relationships based on mutual respect and understanding.
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