Don't seek validation from "summary" of Keep Going by Austin Kleon
When you seek validation from others, you are essentially giving away your power. You are letting someone else dictate how you should feel about your work or yourself. This can be a dangerous game to play, as not everyone will offer the validation you seek, and you may find yourself constantly seeking approval from others. Validation is like a drug - it feels good in the moment, but it doesn't last. You may get a temporary high from someone praising your work, but that feeling will eventually fade, and you'll be left craving more. This cycle can be exhausting and detrimental to your creativity and self-esteem. Instead of seeking validation from others, focus on validating yourself. Find joy and satisfaction in your work for yourself, not for the approval of others. Remember why you started creating in the first place - because it brings you joy and fulfillment. Hold onto that feeling and let it drive you forward. By seeking validation from within, you free yourself from the need for external approval. You become more confident in your work and your abilities, and you are able to create from a place of authenticity and passion. This is where true creativity thrives - when you create for yourself, not for others. So, the next time you find yourself seeking validation from others, take a step back and remember that true validation comes from within. Trust in yourself and your work, and let that be enough. You are your own best judge, and your opinion of your work is the only one that truly matters.
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