The legacy we leave behind can shape how we are remembered after death from "summary" of How We Die by Sherwin B Nuland
In the final analysis, what happens to the bodies we leave behind is of far less importance than what we have done with our lives. The legacy we leave, whether good or bad, is the true measure of our existence. It is this legacy that will live on long after our bodies have turned to dust. How we are remembered after death is shaped by the impact we have had on the world and the lives of those around us. Our actions and choices during our time on this earth have a lasting impact that can influence how we are perceived by future generations. Whether we leave behind a legacy of kindness, compassion, and generosity, or one of selfishness, cruelty, and greed, will ultimately determine how we are remembered. It is not the manner in which we die that defines us, but rather the way in which we have lived. The memories we create, the relationships we nurture, and the contributions we make to the world are what truly matter in the end. These are the things that will endure long after we are gone.- The physical act of dying is but a small part of the human experience. It is how we choose to live our lives that truly matters. Our legacy is our lasting imprint on the world, the mark we leave behind for future generations to remember us by. And it is this legacy that will ultimately shape how we are remembered after we are gone.