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Use your body language to show interest from "summary" of How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes

Let's say you're at a party, and someone is telling you a story. To show them that you're interested, you don't have to interrupt them every two seconds with affirmations like "Wow" or "Really?" Instead, you can use your body language to convey your interest. Start by making eye contact. Look directly at the person who is speaking, and nod every now and then to show that you're following along. This simple act can make a world of difference in how the other person perceives your level of engagement. Lean slightly towards the speaker, showing that you're fully focused on what they're saying. This slight movement can communicate that you're interested in what they have to say and that you value their words. Another way to show interest through body language is by mirroring the other person's gestures. If they lean in, you can lean in too. If they use their hands to emphasize a point, you can do the same. This mirroring effect can create a sense of connection between you and the speaker. Finally, don't forget to smile. A warm and genuine smile can communicate that you're enjoying the conversation and that you're happy to be talking to the other person. It can also help put the speaker at ease, making them more likely to open up and share their thoughts with you. By using your body language to show interest, you can create a more engaging and meaningful conversation with those around you. So the next time you find yourself in a social situation, remember to make eye contact, nod, lean in, mirror gestures, and smile – your body language speaks volumes.
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    How to Talk to Anyone

    Leil Lowndes

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