Establish common ground for a stronger connection from "summary" of How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes
When you're looking to connect with someone, finding common ground is like striking gold. It's the key to building a strong bond that can withstand any conversation or interaction. Think of it as the foundation upon which you can build a lasting relationship. Without this common ground, your connection might feel shaky or superficial.
So, how do you establish this common ground? It's all about finding shared interests, experiences, or values that you both can relate to. This could be anything from a love of hiking to a passion for Italian cuisine. The key is to identify these points of connection and use them as a jumping-off point for deeper conversations.
When you can bond over something you both care about, the conversation flows more naturally and effortlessly. You'll find that you have more to talk about and that your connection strengthens with each shared moment. This is the beauty of establishing common ground – it brings you closer together in a way that feels genuine and authentic.
By taking the time to uncover what you have in common with someone, you're showing that you care about making a real connection. You're demonstrating your interest in getting to know them on a deeper level. And in return, you'll likely find that the other person is more open and receptive to building a relationship with you.
So, the next time you're looking to connect with someone, take the time to establish common ground. It's the secret ingredient that will help you create a stronger, more meaningful connection that can stand the test of time. And remember, in the world of relationships, finding common ground is like striking gold – it's invaluable and worth its weight in conversation.
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