Offer choices from "summary" of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we offer our teenagers choices, we are showing them respect and acknowledging their autonomy. By presenting options, we are giving them the opportunity to exercise their decision-making skills, which can help them feel empowered and in control of their lives. This can be particularly important during adolescence, a time when teens are seeking independence and exploring their identities. When offering choices, it is important to make sure that all options are acceptable to you as a parent. This way, you can be comfortable with whatever decision your teen makes. It is also essential to present the choices in a way that is clear and straightforward, avoiding ambiguity or overly complex options that may confuse or overwhelm your teenager. One effect...
Similar Posts
Embracing creativity and imagination
Jerry Spinelli's 'Knots in My Yo-Yo String' beautifully illustrates the importance of embracing creativity and imagination in o...
Allow teens to express themselves freely
When we give teens the freedom to express themselves, we are showing them that their thoughts and feelings are important to us....
Avoid judgments and criticism
When we judge or criticize teens, we are essentially shutting down the lines of communication. Our negative comments can make t...
Foster strong connections with your child
Building a strong connection with your child is essential in fostering a healthy and nurturing relationship. This involves crea...