Encourage children to express their feelings from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When children express their feelings, they are letting us know what is going on inside of them. By encouraging them to do so, we are opening up a channel of communication that can help us understand their perspective better. This can lead to a deeper connection with our children, as we show them that we value their emotions and thoughts. One way to encourage children to express their feelings is by actively listening to them. When we give them our full attention without interrupting or judging, they are more likely to feel comfortable sharing their emotions with us. This can create a safe space for them to be open and honest about how they are feeling. It is also important to validate children's feelings when they do express them. By acknowledging their emotions and showing empathy, we are letting them know that it is okay to feel the way they do. This can help build their self-esteem and confidence in sharing their feelings in the future. Another way to encourage children to express their feelings is by modeling this behavior ourselves. When we openly talk about our own emotions and how we are feeling, we are showing them that it is normal and healthy to express how we feel. This can inspire them to do the same and create a more open and communicative environment in the family.- Encouraging children to express their feelings is crucial for their emotional development and for building strong relationships with them. By listening, validating, and modeling this behavior, we can create a safe and supportive space for our children to share their emotions and thoughts with us. This can lead to a deeper understanding of their perspective and strengthen our bond with them.
