Foster a sense of independence and selfreliance in children from "summary" of How to Raise an Adult by Julie Lythcott-Haims
To help children develop independence and self-reliance, parents need to step back and let their kids make mistakes and learn from them. This may seem counterintuitive, as parents typically want to protect their children from failure and disappointment. However, shielding children from all challenges and obstacles prevents them from developing the skills and resilience necessary to navigate the world on their own. By allowing children to face challenges, make decisions, and solve problems independently, parents empower them to develop a sense of agency and self-confidence. This process involves giving children age-appropriate responsibilities and the freedom to make choices within boundaries set by parents. For example, parents can encourage children to manage their own schedules, complete tasks without constant reminders, and take ownership of their schoolwork and ext...
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