Be present and attentive in their presence from "summary" of How To Make Someone Obsessed With You by Scarlett Kennedy
Imagine you are sitting across from the person you are trying to make obsessed with you. Your attention should be solely focused on them. Put away your phone, turn off the TV, and eliminate any distractions. Show them that you value their presence by giving them your undivided attention.
Listen actively to what they are saying. Nod your head, maintain eye contact, and respond appropriately to show that you are engaged in the conversation. Ask follow-up questions to demonstrate that you are truly interested in what they have to say. This will make them feel important and valued.
Pay attention to their body language and nonverbal cues. Notice if they are leaning in towards you, making eye contact, or mirroring your gestures. This will give you insight into how they are feeling and help you to connect with them on a deeper level.
Be mindful of your own body language as well. Maintain an open posture, smile often, and lean in towards them to show that you are fully present in the moment. This will create a sense of intimacy and connection between the two of you.
Engage in activities together that require your full attention. Whether it's going for a walk, cooking a meal, or watching a movie, make sure that you are fully present and engaged in the moment. This will strengthen your bond and create lasting memories that will make them think of you even when you are not together.
Being present and attentive in their presence is a simple yet powerful way to make someone obsessed with you. By showing them that you value their company and are fully engaged in their presence, you will deepen your connection and leave a lasting impression.
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