Understand her feelings from "summary" of How to Flirt with Women by Love Academy
Learning how to read and understand a woman's feelings is an important part of flirting. It can help you create an emotional connection and make her more comfortable with you. Knowing what she is feeling can also help you develop a relationship with her.- Demonstrate understanding by simply reflecting what she has said or feels; this shows respect and makes her believe she is being heard. This will also give her the opportunity to map out her thoughts before confronting any solutions if need be.
- Bear in mind too that everyone's different. We all experience different kinds of emotions at varying intensities, some express these with more ease than others, whereas for others it may take a little coaxing. So stay mindful and empathetic towards her feelings.
- Make an effort to recognize when she’s feeling down and offer her a comforting shoulder to lean on. It will show her that your care goes far deeper than just wanting something physical from her.
- Don't keep things bottled up or locked away. Openly share your true feelings with her, letting her in on how you're really feeling and allowing her to do the same is likely to make her feel accepted and deeply understood.
- Make yourself available to talk to her without pressure or judgement at all hours of the day, no matter how trivial the issue may seem. Listening with acceptance and patience can go a long way into helping her come to terms with whatever she’s feeling.
- Hold on to her favorite moments of laughter and happiness and bring them up and use them as conversational pieces to bring a smile back onto her face when she’s struggling through tough times.
- Take the time to really get to know her. Ask meaningful questions about her life and listen with genuine interest, so she knows that you care about getting to know her beyond surface level conversation.
- Be gentle when exploring sensitive topics - don’t bulldoze over her concerns. Instead ask indirectly and let her explain the details. She may ultimately feel like she can trust you for not pushing her into uncomfortable territories.
