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Communicate openly about fantasies and desires from "summary" of How to be a Great Lover by Lou Paget

Talking openly about your fantasies and desires is a key component of a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship. It allows you and your partner to explore new and exciting possibilities together, deepening your connection and increasing your pleasure. When you communicate your desires to your partner, you are giving them valuable insight into what turns you on and what you enjoy. This information allows them to tailor their actions to your preferences, ensuring that you both have a more pleasurable experience. Similarly, by sharing your fantasies with your partner, you are inviting them into your inner world and giving them a glimpse of what excites you. This level of vulnerability can foster a greater sense of intimacy and trust between you, strengthening your bond and enhancing your overall relationship. Furthermore, discussing your fantasies and desires can help you and your partner discover new things about each other and expand your sexual repertoire. By being open and honest about what you want, you create a safe space for exploration and experimentation, leading to a more fulfilling and exciting sex life. In order to effectively communicate your fantasies and desires, it is important to approach the conversation with an open mind and a non-judgmental attitude. Be willing to listen to your partner's fantasies as well, and be respectful of their boundaries and limits.
  1. Your fantasies and desires are a natural and normal part of your sexuality. Embrace them, share them with your partner, and enjoy the journey of exploration and discovery together. By communicating openly about your fantasies and desires, you can create a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual relationship that brings you closer together and enhances your overall intimacy.
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How to be a Great Lover

Lou Paget

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