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We must be present and engaged in our children's lives from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
To parent effectively, we must be present and engaged in our children's lives. This means being emotionally available and attuned to them. When we are distracted or preoccupied with other things, we send a message to our children that they are not our top priority. This can lead to feelings of insecurity and detachment in our children, as they may not feel seen or heard by us. Being present involves more than just physically being in the same room as our children. It means actively listening to them, showing empathy and understanding, and being responsive to their needs. When we are fully present with our children, we create a strong emotional bond with them that fosters trust and connection. Engagement requires us to participate in our children's lives in a meaningful way. This may involve playing, reading, or simply spending quality time together. By engaging wi...
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